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For once, I was looking forward to coming into work. In my first meeting for the day, a team member named Raj walked into the meeting room with a smile on his face. I asked how was his weekend, and he said, with a small laugh, it was fine. He asked how was mine.. I responded, it was quite Head-dy. He laughed and the others in the room thought it was a blow below the belt but we had a good laugh about the ODI world cup.

 

The next, another Raj, passed me a bit salty... "It was a bloody disgrace, but congratulations" he muttered under his breath. We did have a chat later, but his anger was visible. I didn't even bait him. I met a couple of other colleagues of Indian origin and asked how their Sunday went "Ahh.. don't even mention it" they retorted..

 

It was in the end, all in good humour...  And I said at the end of each conversation; "OK, that's it, we're looking forward to the next one.." After saying that, one of them seid, "That's why you Aussies are so bloody good at sport. You take the win; celebrate for a bit, and then are thinking of what's next.. Everyone else celebrates for days and then rests on their laurels."..

 

And to top it off... staying at my old local in Richmond, the Dukes Head.. Having a great burger and an Aussie red. Took this photo when there was no one around.. In the dining room, the drinking area, which was busy, is at the other end of the bar. Although I am not enamoured with the decor these days, this is a real local.. Only flying is better.

 

 

 

 

 

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I think it's about time parents were charged with poor parenting, with a significant penalty. How come all these 10 to 15 year olds are out carrying out all these serious crimes - car theft, house breaking, carrying knives and machetes, etc., at all hours of the night? I raised two sons through the teen years and they are now responsible men in their 40's, with no problems. We never let them out at night without supervision or knowing where they were and who they were with. Kids are not taught right from wrong, or taught respect. Now the state governments want to raise the age of criminal liability. Where will it all end?

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I hear what you say, and I like it because it is a conversation that is required.

 

But the flaw to the assertion is this: Hang on.. my parents were terrible - it is their fault I am a bad parent.

 

And, they may be right..

 

And so on.. and so on...

 

Which generation takes the ultimate blame?

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It's not that simple unfortunately. 

There was a bully in my eldest son's class in primary school. This kid was pure evil, beat up others with no reason or thought of consequences. 

We contacted his parents when he'd hurt our son once.  They are lovely people,  professional types, loving household, discipline etc. They could not be faulted in a single way for the way they parented,  yet their kid was a monster.

I don't know how that kid will turn out when he's older. He might have an undiagnosed chemical imbalance or something.   But I know it's not his parent's fault that he's like that.

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I had kids like that in schools I attended as a Pupil and later as a Teacher. Both parents working may be a factor but Kids today are exposed to a lot of $#!t  stuff that would not be conducive to a good mental health state..  Nev

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I believe it is taught as " leadership " qualities. 

As no teacher in my school ever chastised a bully ! , Only that victim. 

My parenting ? .

The war ruined most Working class families! .

Hundreds of millions of ' fathers ' gone . 

spacesailor

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5 hours ago, Marty_d said:

It's not that simple unfortunately. 

There was a bully in my eldest son's class in primary school. This kid was pure evil, beat up others with no reason or thought of consequences. 

We contacted his parents when he'd hurt our son once.  They are lovely people,  professional types, loving household, discipline etc. They could not be faulted in a single way for the way they parented,  yet their kid was a monster.

I don't know how that kid will turn out when he's older. He might have an undiagnosed chemical imbalance or something.   But I know it's not his parent's fault that he's like that.

The kid may have ADHD, ADD, autism, etc..  Parents may be in denial and not seeking a diagnosis... 

 

Sadly, Bill Shorten has come out and said NDIS can't be a surrogate school system for kids that have high functioning autism... yet teachers aren't psychologists and I doubt funding is made available by the education department for diagnosis and treatment

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My niece- inlaw seems ' well off ' on that " ndis " .

New car ,with alterations for disabled driver . Even the ' powered wheelchair ' Must be super expensive compared to the ' old ' type . Is it all payed for by the " motorist " .

spacesailor

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I'm glad that over twenty years ago my wife pulled the purse strings tight and said, "No more cigarettes". It's not the escape from the tar an nicotine that I am happy about, but the massive savings in expenditure that we must have made through that decision. I don't think that you can buy a packet of cheap fags for under $30 nowadays.

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I'm glad the Price went up. It gave me one more reason to quit and I've not had even ONE in about the last 28 years. It's a nasty bad smelling health depriving Habit. Your sense of smell and taste will improve immediately.  IF you smoke giving it up is the best single move you can do for yourself and those who have to put up with the smoke you make.  Nev

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I reckon the last packet of fags I bought cost 3 shillings and 4 pence. But the worst thing I ever saw was a fat family at an "all you can eat" restaurant in the USA. It was breakfast time, and the two fat boys piled their plates up with a mixture of bacon and eggs and ( truly!) chocolate icing donuts. They used one big plate each and the pile was a pyramid about a foot high. You could see strata of bacon, eggs, sausages, donuts repeating as the layers rose and had to get smaller .

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15 minutes ago, Bruce Tuncks said:

I reckon the last packet of fags I bought cost 3 shillings and 4 pence. But the worst thing I ever saw was a fat family at an "all you can eat" restaurant in the USA. It was breakfast time, and the two fat boys piled their plates up with a mixture of bacon and eggs and ( truly!) chocolate icing donuts. They used one big plate each and the pile was a pyramid about a foot high. You could see strata of bacon, eggs, sausages, donuts repeating as the layers rose and had to get smaller .

Those Americans have odd tastes. I've seen that myself in Nevada years ago. Bacon and eggs with a sickly sweet pudding as a side dish.

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